Jim Carrey once said, “If you’re not willing to downgrade your lifestyle for a year to have a lifestyle you want forever, you care too much about what other people think.”
People are going to gossip. If you see a group of ladies after church, they will most likely gossip about people and their relationships. Gossiping is like venting where it is just talking about the problems. Sometimes, the trash talking is negative, critical, and hyper focused on someone’s mistakes and flaws. It is the destruction of your goals that lead you to stop trying and your shattered self-confidence.
Breaking the Cycle of People-Pleasing
Chasing other approvals while you over please to be overly kind is creating that feeling of being tired all the time and emotionally stuck on feeling terrible. You just say yes to avoid confrontation and all you get is you being overly upset because you didn’t do it all perfectly.
This type of people-pleasing behavior can have negative consequences on your mental health, causing anxiety and depression.
Self-hypnosis can help you break free from this cycle of seeking approval from others and build a positive mindset that prioritizes your own needs and desires. By learning to love and accept yourself, you can achieve a sense of inner peace and confidence that radiates outward to those around you.
Visualize Your Success: The Power of Acting As If You Already Have What You Want
You are just not going to make everybody happy. An what would happen if you pretended for a moment that you already have what you wanted?
Wouldn’t all the doubt and debate be erased from your mind?
Wouldn’t you walk into the room with all the divine confidence where you are not comparing yourself to anyone at all?
What would you gain with all that self-confidence?
What specifically will happen when you start chasing what you want to have in your life?
Wouldn’t you go ahead and succeed now like Shakira?
Here’s what I mean:
Shakira is now known as one of the world’s best-selling artists. When she was younger, her teacher told her that her voice is just terrible and sounded like a goat.
When she was in grade school, no one cared for her voice. Her teacher wouldn’t let her join the school choir because they didn’t like her voice. Her classmates teased her about how her voice sounded like a goat. (www.thesized.com)
She is now known as the Queen of Latin music. Some songs that charted number one in multiple countries are Hips Don’t Lie, Beautiful Lair and many others. She sold over 85 million records. (Wikipedia.org)
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